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Date: 12/1/2023
Subject: Village Vibes Newsletter - December 2023
From: Tierrasanta Village of San Diego (TVSD)




DECEMBER 2023 NEWSLETTER

A Message from the New Board President

 

As I begin my tenure as the new TVSD President, I want to take this time to offer a great big Thank You to Marilyn Bente for the wonderful job she did as our President for the past two and one half years. Because of her dedication and leadership, TVSD is strong and having a significant, positive impact on the lives of our members. Her love of this organization is evidenced by her willingness to continue to serve on our Board of Directors as our Immediate Past President.


Under Marilyn’s leadership, the Board has been busy implementing the strategic plan approved by the Board in November, 2022. The first significant accomplishment was the successful search for a part time business manager. We hired Terri Gilbreth on May 8, 2023, and she has already had a significant impact on our successes. She, in tandem with our hard working Cassandra, are helping guide the Board through new territories. We are truly fortunate to have this team sharing their time and skills with TVSD.


This is a good opportunity for me to share some of our activities and accomplishments. Terri has been working on locating and applying for grants to enhance our fund raising activities. Our exercise programs have expanded in response to the increasing demand by our members. As we continue to explore how we can offer more of our activities in ADA compliant locations, we succeeded in gaining access to the Tierrasanta Recreation Center for our new Thai Chi classes. We hope to expand our use of this facility.


We continue to strengthen our marketing program under the able leadership of Cassandra. An important part of growing our membership and increasing our income sources is expanding our community connections. By participating in the recent series of concerts in the park, the craft fair and Tierrafest, we are becoming better known in the community. We will continue to take advantage of similar opportunities.


We have developed a Supporting Partner program that will be launched in January, 2024. We hope this initiative will create more partnerships within the community and raise funds to support our programming. The Board put together a design team who worked closely with our Information Technology committee to modernize and upgrade aspects of our website. We will continue to research and take advantage of new technologies and software to enhance and streamline our operations.


Our efforts to grow our membership is going very well. In the past eighteen months, we have added 32 new members (an average of 1.8 per month)! We are currently at about 132 members. In order to maximize the benefits of your membership, the Board strongly recommends everyone get involved. We offer so many ways to become active and to meet your neighbors. We are a neighbor helping neighbor group. We care about others, so please find your passion, enjoy your membership: get involved.  Thank you!


Ken Ross

TVSD Board President  

 
 
 
 
 
 
The Donor Drive Thermometer is looking good! 
 
Members and supporters have already raised $3,579 towards our $17,000 donation goal.  
 
Thank you for supporting the TVSD Donor Drive at tierrasantavillage.org!
 

And thank you for your ongoing contributions of time and talents that make our village so special!  

 

Invite From the Social/Membership Team
 
You're Invited to the Calendar Kick-Off Party!

WHAT: The social/membership team has been busy planning social events for each month of the new year!
Now we need your input/help. Come see what we have planned and sign-up to help in some way. Maybe you’d like to help set up, clean up, bring food, or just be on a team to share ideas for the event.
WHEN: Tuesday, January 16th
WHERE: Clubhouse
TIME: 1:00-2:30 PM
BRING: Your calendar to check your availability for specific dates
WHY: We are a caring community working together to create programs and services. Joining a planning team is a way to contribute to the Village and get to know members. All our events cannot be carried out by just a few members. It takes a Village! Please join us for snacks, drinks and see what we have in store for 2024!!!

Sign up on the calendar if you are able to come!

 
 
 
 
Third Thursday Social
 
Members always enjoy the Third Thursday social! This is also a great event for guests to attend if they are interested in learning more about Tierrasanta Village. Invite your friends and neighbors - all are welcome!
 
There will be no meeting in December due to the busy holiday season. Next event is January 18th!  

Membership Meeting Schedule
 
Due to the Holiday Party on 12/5, there will be no monthly Member Meeting in December. Our next meeting will be Monday, January 8th at the Seventh-day Church and online via Zoom. Please register for this event if you plan to attend.
 

Holiday Giving Opportunity

 

As you recall at last month’s Members Meeting, one of our guest speakers, Mary Tripp from the Afghan Refugee Project, talked about their “Adopt a Family” program during this holiday season. Our Village is supporting this program as a way to “give back” in a charitable way to help a needy family. If you would like to participate, here is how it works:

  • 1.) Get together with 3 or 4 others (family, neighbors, or Village friends) and agree to “adopt a family”.
  • 2.) Contact either Sheila Weiner (our community outreach leader) or Marilyn Bente to let us know that you are interested.
  • 3.) Your group will then receive information about the family --- number of children, their names, ages, and gender.
  • 4.) You are asked to buy one gift for each child (age and gender appropriate). Please, no batteries-required toys. Each gift should be in the $15 to $25 range.
  • 5.) Please wrap each gift and put the child’s name on it.
  • 6.) You are also asked to give a gift card to the parents (Target/Walmart or grocery store would be best).
  • 7.) Please have everything ready by Dec. 15.
  • 8.) You can drop the gifts off at the clubhouse; notify either Marilyn or Sheila for pickup from your house; or you can personally deliver them directly to the family.

Thank you so much for your generosity and support of this project. And, happy holidays to you all!

 

- Marilyn Bente, TVSD Past President


Welcome New Member
 
Marilyn Shatilla!
 
 (photo pending)

Someone You Should Know
by Carol Lee 
 

Dick Benton was an army brat. Even though born in the army hospital in the Bronx, he claims to be from Brooklyn because, while his dad was stationed in Germany, Dick and his mom lived there with her parents. When he was 18 months old, he and his mom joined his dad in Germany, and after that did the typical moving around of service families. Dick’s dad retired in 1961 when he was stationed in New York City, the same year that Dick graduated from high school in Brooklyn.

 

The family moved to New Hampshire, where Dick attended UNH where he majored in mechanical engineering and also participated in their ROTC program. He joined the US Air Force and was able to pursue his master’s degree as his first active-duty assignment. After that, Dick went where the Air Force sent him: Sacramento, the east coast of Florida, the Gulf coast of Florida, and the Boeing Company in Seattle. His final duty was at Los Angeles Air Force Station in El Segundo, from where he retired in 1989. From 1989 to 1991, he was a deputy state fire marshal, after which he took the position of UC San Diego Fire Marshal, from which he retired in 2006.

 

Dick had met his future wife, LuAnn, in 1989, as a result of his involvement in “Young At Heart,” an organization for young people with arthritis. He had been attracted to LuAnn by her radiant smile and asked the group leader to ask LuAnn if Dick could call her. She agreed, he did, and things progressed from then. They were married in December, 1990. As he says: “A definite silver lining to the dark cloud of arthritis!” 

 

 When Dick and LuAnn had moved to San Diego for the job at UCSD, they chose to live in Tierrasanta to be near a close friend Dick thought of as “the older brother I never had”. After borrowing his friend’s RV and discovering the joys of RV-ing, Dick and LuAnn bought their own and enjoyed almost 20 years of traveling “to the four corners of the US and Canada”. Dick finally sold their RV in 2016, and he and LuAnn have been enjoying road trips and cruises since then. They’re planning on a European river cruise in June – from Amsterdam to Budapest.


Dick has a daughter and a granddaughter from a previous marriage, and Dick and LuAnn have numerous nieces and nephews, great nieces and great nephews, and great-great nieces and great-great nephews on LuAnn’s side.

 

Dick has always loved helping others. During his college years and all of his assign­ments in the Air Force (except for when he was stationed in LA) he was a volunteer fire fighter and EMT. Dick is now a volunteer in the Jewish Family Service “Fix-It” program, and would like to be known in our Time Bank as “Tinkerer-in-Chief” – willing to try to fix just about anything. He’ll also install smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, or even do a safety check in our members’ homes. He is currently volunteering at Vista Grande Elementary School in their Everyone-A-Reader program; at Mira Mesa Library, he is a weekly storyteller; while at the Mission Valley branch library, he helps with their holiday activities for kids. He is an avid reader and has developed a database to keep track of all the books he has read. He also enjoys model railroading, photography, and computers.

 

At Octoberfest a year ago, LuAnn and Dick met Cassandra and learned more about TVSD than they had already heard from a few friends. They joined TVSD because they were interested in making more friends in the area. They have enjoyed activities like Fun and Games, Casino Night, and the Cornhole Tournament, and Dick planned a recent TVSD outing to the San Diego Gem and Mineral Show (an event directed by LuAnn, Vice President of the San Diego Mineral and Gem Society), as well as being quite active in our Time Bank.

 

Dick’s words to live by: “Whatever you’re doing, look for opportunities to introduce some humor into these days when we have so little of it.”


Time Bank Topics

 
 

Time Bank stories serve to illustrate the benefits of Time Banking.

 

In the middle of my housekeeper cleaning the house, the main hall light suddenly went out. Light bulbs replaced, still no light. I remembered that on the list of Time Bank offers was one about electrical problems. A phone call, a quick visit, the switch replaced and there was light! -Member Carmela Cavero

 

We often hear from members “I don’t know what I could offer". Often we are not fully aware of our own capabilities and we can do many things not listed in our offer column. If you'd like to discuss the offers you may be able to provide, a member of the Time Bank committee is happy to chat with you. Please feel free to contact them using the online Membership Directory.

 

- From Your Time Bank Committee: Carmela Cavero, Lesley Fitzpatrick, Delise Konigsbach 


Chocolate Factory Tour & Lunch
 
Our January Field trip will be a very sweet event. We will tour Seabreeze Craft Chocolates in Carmel Valley. Jim Lantry, a former lobbyist for children with autism, learned how to make chocolate during the pandemic. When he retired soon after, he decided he wanted to pursue his love of chocolate. He now has his own factory in Carmel Valley. We will have a short tour and then be able to ask questions. He will also share about the classes he offers to make your very own specialty chocolates. You can purchase some chocolate if you wish. Lunch after the tour will be at the nearby Marketplace Grill. The tour is free. Members will pay their own lunch charges. Tour is limited to 15 people because it is a small shop. Deadline for registration is Wednesday January 17th.

Tuesday Lunch Bunch & ROMEO will return to the calendar in the new year!

Singles Network (SNAP)
Lazy Dog Restaurant
December 9th, 1:00 p.m. 

December 2023 Village Events
 
The first quarter 2024 events are now open for registration!
 
Reminder:
 
The Clubhouse is closed 12/25 & 12/26 for the Christmas Holiday
 
Check out the full Event Calendar for all of the upcoming events, classes, and activities!

 

Library Book Sale
 
 Dec. 1st (Friday) 11:30-5:00
Dec. 2nd (Saturday) 9:30-3:00  
Dec. 4th (Monday) 11:30-5:00

Tierrasanta Library CLOSED Dec. 24th, 25th and 31st

Tierrasanta Village
Clubhouse Address:
5275 Rimpark Lane
 San Diego, CA 92124
858-569-9119
www.tierrasantavillage.org
Mailing Address:
10601 Tierrasanta Boulevard, G-405
San Diego, CA 92124